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Diply | Diply
Ever been caught in the crossfire of financial etiquette? Well, our birthday girl sure has! She's been in a relationship with her boyfriend, 'Dave', for nearly 5 years. Most of their friends, including Dave, come from a wealthy background. However, our birthday girl isn't so lucky. Despite their financial differences, they've always managed to find a balance... until 'Jan' came into the picture. ππΈ
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Birthday Girl's Bold Move: No Room for Judgement at the Dinner Table! ππ«
Caught in a whirlwind of financial drama and hurtful comments, our birthday girl makes a tough decision. After learning about 'Jan's' unkind remarks, she decides to uninvite her from her birthday dinner. Despite feeling guilty, she stands her ground, refusing to let judgement and insecurity ruin her special day. But the question remains, will this bold move mend the situation or ignite a bigger fire? Let's see how the internet reacts to this birthday bombshell! ππ₯
"NTA. Jan's nosy judgment is ruining your birthday celebration! π‘"
sadorangellama | sadorangellama
NTA: May uninvites 'friend' who tried to isolate and gossip.
Present_Weather- | Present_Weather-
NTA. Uninviting a 'friend' who gossips about your finances? Good call! π―
FlyingDutchLady | FlyingDutchLady
NTA: Jan's mean girl behavior backfires, group supports OP. π
Advanced-Extent-420 | Advanced-Extent-420
NTA. Friends should support each other financially and emotionally. π
mfruitfly | mfruitfly
NTA - Stick to your bill-splitting arrangement and shut her down! π²
junkiecreppermint | junkiecreppermint
NTA strikes back at nosy friend, sparking agreement from others!
phosphatecalc | phosphatecalc
NTA. Boyfriend's business is none of her business. No-go on nasty comments.
DonaQuijote | DonaQuijote
NTA. Setting boundaries and sending a powerful message to everyone! πͺ
1Kcer | 1Kcer
Uninvited 'friend' ruins birthday celebration with passive-aggressive comments. NTA!
Cosmicshimmer | Cosmicshimmer
Resentful 'friend' gets a reality check and faces consequences! π
The__Riker__Maneuver | The__Riker__Maneuver
Uninvited 'Friend' bashes commenter for not affording birthday dinner! NTA
BurnTheBurnsr | BurnTheBurnsr
NTA. Jan's snap judgement caused unnecessary drama. Good riddance! π―
PilotEnvironmental46 | PilotEnvironmental46
NTA: Splitting the bill fairly is important, but so is communication π±
PaintedJay | PaintedJay
NTA. Jan needs to mind her own business and stay out of it! π
Ok-Hour4927 | Ok-Hour4927
NTA uninvites judgmental friend from birthday dinner, drama ensues! π±
jelissbones | jelissbones
Cut out toxic friends and enjoy your drama-free birthday! π
[deleted] | [deleted]
Seems fair. Keep doing what you're doing. π
Z_a_l_g_o | Z_a_l_g_o
"New girl talks sh*t, boyfriend defends, uninvites her. Drama unfolds!"
N3rdProbl3ms | N3rdProbl3ms
NTA. Confusing money drama at the birthday party, who paid for what? π€
Hopepersonified | Hopepersonified
Supportive boyfriend and friends have your back! π
Ruhro7 | Ruhro7
NTA. Financial decisions are personal. Jan needs a reality check! π
darkmoonfalling | darkmoonfalling
NTA insists on paying for friends, but uninvites 'friend' over money drama! πΈπ
Beneficial-Soft-3492 | Beneficial-Soft-3492
Splitting checks: annoying for servers, but fair for friends? π³
allenna | allenna
NTA: Setting boundaries and paying your fair share is important π
ADHDLifer | ADHDLifer
NTA. Supportive boyfriend and friends. Can't wait for an update! π
pixie_at_heart | pixie_at_heart
Boyfriend pays for everything, haters can mind their own business! πΈ
Revolutionary-Rub358 | Revolutionary-Rub358
NTA! Jan's audacity is shocking. Your true friends have your back! π―
KirinoLover | KirinoLover
Jan needs to mind her own business! NTA π
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OP sets the record straight, calls out Jan's inappropriate comments! π²
Decent_Bandicoot122 | Decent_Bandicoot122
NTA-Ppl should never assume or make negative comments regarding a relationship and how those in it handle situations. Jan learned that she isn't the one to be able to do that and your bf backed you up. That's a win in my book. No need to reply to Jan. If she didn't get it, she does now. π
Leather-Anybody-5389 | Leather-Anybody-5389
NTA: Uninviting a mean girl from your birthday celebration. π
revengeOftheNith | revengeOftheNith
Uninvited 'friend' over money drama! No party for her! π
Sensitive_Coconut339 | Sensitive_Coconut339
May's silence spoke volumes as Jan badmouthed you. π€·ββοΈ
Me__Again | Me__Again
NTA, keep an eye on her. Boyfriend might suffer consequences! π
tosety | tosety
Toxic friend makes offensive joke, NTA for uninviting her. π
MarkedHeart | MarkedHeart
Gender norms and jealousy spark interesting dinner conversation! π€π
zee-bra | zee-bra
NTA-Matt- ditch Jan.OP- your man is a keeper
RingAroundtheTolley | RingAroundtheTolley
Uninvited 'friend' talks behind back, no need to respond. NTA. π
oxcelotl | oxcelotl
NTA, but is she just repeating gossip? π€
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NTA, but please stop making your server split the bill π
underlord5000 | underlord5000
Jan is a monster, but May is the true friend! NTA π
Infosexual | Infosexual
Call her out on her bs and make peace! Adulting 101 π
charlybell | charlybell
Counting heads: Was it 7 or 8 at the dinner? π€
Mommy-Q | Mommy-Q
NTA: You did the right thing! π
ArmyloveAmmu | ArmyloveAmmu
NTA.. she sure is though π
CoffeeBean118 | CoffeeBean118
NTA: Drama over money, backstabbing and miscommunication. π³
Gullible-Tondonian | Gullible-Tondonian
Birthday drama! Uninviting 'friend' over money. Not the a**hole!
CarelessCow2599 | CarelessCow2599
Uninvited 'friend' makes hurtful remarks, birthday girl strikes back! πΈπ
Old-Cry- | Old-Cry-
NTA: Shutting down a judgmental 'friend' with financial independence! π―
Knittingfairy09113 | Knittingfairy09113
Jan's behavior is terrible! Matt deserves better! π
ssssssim | ssssssim
Let the birthday girl have her special day without drama! π
sindyisdatchu | sindyisdatchu
NTA: Uninviting 'friend' over money drama? Rude and tacky! π
Drewherondale | Drewherondale
Friendship drama! NTA stands up to disrupter Jan. π
gamercrafter86 | gamercrafter86
Lucky to have friends who have your back! π
ciaranmac17 | ciaranmac17
NTA: Wealthy 'friend' uninvited for money drama. Birthday girl strikes back! π
Somebodycalled911 | Somebodycalled911
Friend uninvited over money drama, trying to save face π³
chonkosaurusrexx | chonkosaurusrexx
Financial judgment is a no-go, even for self-made millionaires! π΅
Beautifulwarfare | Beautifulwarfare
New girl gets uninvited for being rude and judgmental! π
DZHMMM | DZHMMM
NTA. Your friend should mind her own business. Happy birthday! π
_higglety | _higglety
OP uninvites 'friend' over money drama, friends and SO support. NTA!
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Supportive comment: Defending the birthday girl's uninviting decision! π
Cpt_Lazlo | Cpt_Lazlo
Jan's judgment was unnecessary and now she faces the consequences! π
Linen-Swift | Linen-Swift